Affirming Therapy for every part of you.
LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in NY, NJ and more.
A supportive space to explore, heal and grow into the life you want.
Getting Started is Simple
Here is what you can expect when you reach out
Reach Out
Send a message or book a free consultation
Get Matched
We’ll pair you with a therapist who fits your needs
Meet
Attend your first virtual session
Begin
Start your journey towards healing and meaningful change
Areas of support
Trauma & Healing
Process past experiences and build safety, resilience. and self-compassion.
Self Esteem & Confidence
Build self-trust, challenge shame, and feel more at home in yourself.
Explore your identity, gender, sexuality and what feels true to you.
Identity & Expression
Find relief from overwhelm, low mood, and the weight of daily stress.
Anxiety & Depression
Coming out & Transition
Support for coming out, transitioning and creating a life that fits
Navigate relationships. communication, and building healthier connections.
Relationships
OUR APPROACH TO LGBTQ+ CARE
Therapy that honors your whole story
We believe healing happens in relationship. Our therapists bring cultural humility, clinical expertise, and real-world understanding to create a space where you can show up fully and be met with respect.
We integrate evidence-based practices with a trauma-informed, strength-based approach tailored to your needs and goals.
You are seen and respected. Your story is held with care.
You set the pace. You are in charge.
We're here to walk alongside you-celebrating your growth, supporting you through challenges, and helping you create a life that feels like yours.
Therapist Spotlight - Specialists in LGBTQ+ Care
Our therapists bring expertise, compassion, and a deep commitment to helping you heal, grow, and thrive.
Toni Yu (She/Her), LMSW
Toni specializes in helping teens and adults experiencing anxiety, perfectionism, life transitions, trauma, and the pressure of family or cultural expectations. She has a special interest in working with immigrants, children of immigrants, and individuals navigating multicultural identities, using a warm, trauma-informed approach that integrates ACT, CBT, DBT, and narrative therapy.
Psychotherapist. Licensed in NY and NJ.Andy Start (they/he), LMSW
Psychotherapist. Licensed in NY and NJ.Andy works with adults experiencing anxiety, relationship challenges, identity exploration, addiction and recovery, and the impact of coercive or high-control relationships. His relational, somatic, and LGBTQ+ affirming approach combines evidence-based therapies with deep curiosity and compassion, helping clients build more authentic connections with themselves and others.
Psychotherapist. Licensed in NY.Katrina Meyer(She/Her), LMSW
Katrina helps adolescents, young adults, and adults navigating anxiety, trauma, identity development, relationship concerns, and major life transitions. She offers a warm, psychodynamic, trauma-informed approach and is especially passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent clients in building self-understanding, resilience, and lasting emotional wellbeing.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes. For many people, online therapy can be an effective way to receive consistent, meaningful support. Video sessions allow you to meet with a therapist from home, work, or another private space, often making care more accessible.
We use approaches that translate well to virtual care, including CBT, emotionally focused therapy, psychodynamic, relational work, and mind-body strategies. Sessions remain personal and collaborative, giving you space to understand what you are carrying, reconnect with your goals, and build practical support for daily life. Research supports telehealth as a viable alternative to in-person care, although the best format ultimately depends on your needs, privacy, and clinical fit.
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No. You do not need to be in crisis, have a diagnosis, or know exactly what you want to talk about before beginning therapy. Many people start because something feels off, a relationship pattern keeps repeating, they are navigating a transition, or they want a more supportive space to understand themselves.
Therapy can also be a place to build insight, strengthen relationships, work through identity questions, and care for your mental health before things feel unmanageable.
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LGBTQ+ affirming therapy starts from the understanding that there is nothing wrong with your sexual orientation, gender identity, relationship structure, or the way you understand yourself. You should not have to spend therapy educating your clinician about basic aspects of your identity or defending your experience.
An affirming therapist recognizes that minority stress, family dynamics, community, culture, discrimination, and past experiences may shape mental health while also making room for the full range of your life: relationships, work, grief, joy, desire, uncertainty, and growth. Affirmative approaches emphasize validating clients’ strengths, building supportive relationships, and addressing the impact of minority stress without reducing a person to it.
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We’re in-network with certain insurance plans (Aetna, Cigna, Wellfleet, Northwell Direct and Meritain Health) and we may be able to help you use out-of-network benefits as well. Coverage and costs vary, so we’ll walk you through your options before you begin. Our team is happy to talk through fees, payment options, and what using insurance here would look like so there are no surprises. We also offer sliding scale options for those who qualify when paying out-of-pocket.
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The first session is a time for you and your therapist to get to know one another. Your therapist may ask questions about your past and current relationships. They may explore the present, your work, health, social life, family relationships, hobbies, etc. They will listen to what’s hard, what hurts, or what gets in the way of you living your best life. Usually this session is an important time to try and understand the reason you seek therapy. The first meeting is also a good time to go over any questions you have about your therapist or the process.
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You don’t have to be in crisis for therapy to be worthwhile. Therapy may be right for you if depression, anxiety, stress, or recurring patterns in relationships are starting to affect your sleep, mood, work, or sense of yourself or if you simply want more clarity and ease in your life. A consultation is a low-pressure way to explore fit: you can ask questions, share a bit about what you’re noticing, and get a sense of whether a particular therapist and approach feel like a good match. When it doesn’t, we readily help you explore other options. We have a diverse team of professionals to ensure all clients can find their ideal clinician!
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Yes. At The Therapy Collective, finding the right clinical fit is one of our highest priorities. We encourage you to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation with one or more clinicians so you can get a feel for their approach, ask questions, and decide who may be the best fit for your needs.
After you submit the inquiry form, our coordinator will reach out to help guide the process. If, after your initial consultation, you do not feel the clinician is the right match, please let the coordinator know. Our Clinical Director is also available to help identify another therapist within the collective who may better support you.
Still have questions?
We're here to help you take the next step, whatever that looks like.